Part of a Christmas argument with family: K said that just because a person said "look a ..., wouldn't make them racist."
L said, what do you mean look a ...?
"You black bastard. Saying that wouldn't make you a racist."
"What would it make you?"
"You would be showing racist behaviour but you wouldn't be a racist"
"So if you killed someone, that wouldn't be racism, just momentary racist behaviour?"